“I am often asked if I felt any less of a mother to an adopted child. I disagree, the moment I held my daughter in my hands, I became an instant mother,” – Smrite Bhatia
Adoption is a process that connects a child to a mother’s love. Many couples hesitate to adopt a child owing to the societal taboo attached to it. Here is how a former pageant model broke all stereotypes and chose this less taken path towards motherhood. Smrite Bhatia works as an Associate Vice President Client Services at Precistat, an IT firm in Vizag. She was titled ‘Mrs India’ in 2019 at the Visonara Global Mrs India pageant. In conversation with Yo! Vizag, she urges society to open discussions on these topics and help lift the taboo off adoption.
With her mother being a catholic and her father being a Punjabi, Smrite grew up in a multicultural family. Her family used to visit the Bal Niketan orphanage for almost every occasion, be it Christmas or Diwali. “Owing to the regular visits to Bal Niketan orphanage during my childhood, I was exposed to a charity very early on,” says Smrite. During such visits, she was filled with empathy for the underprivileged children at the orphanage. “That’s when I decided and kept telling my parents the same, that my daughter will be from a home such as this,” shares Smrite.
As she grew up, Smrite found that many of these children come from broken homes or through violence. She believes that such children deserve the same if not more love and affection just as much a regular child gets.
Another commonly prevalent assumption by society is that only strained marriages decide to adopt. However, Smitre strongly believes that healthy and strong marriages, with a great bond between the couple, also choose to adopt children. “We intended to welcome a child into our world wholeheartedly and that was all that mattered,” says Smrite.
According to Smrite, there is a huge misconception that parents get to choose the child they’re adopting. In fact, the concerned authority takes the couple’s pictures, blood samples and presents a child with similar physical features. This process takes a long time. The child presented will be medically screened and the parents do have the choice of handing the child back to the authority only on grounds of medical ailments. After acceptance, the family gets a 15-day window to take in the child.
Going further, she intends to adopt a child, who lost their parents and family amidst the violence of war. Influential women like Smrite Bhatia speaking up about such topics is indeed a sign of a better tomorrow. We at Yo! Vizag wishes Smrite and her baby years of good health and happiness.
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